Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Porter Summer Tour - Palmyra, NY

Before I share some pictures and memories of the next portion of our summer tour, I want to say that this trip to see early church history sites was life changing for me. It was incredible to be in the very places where events happened which are integral to my religious beliefs about the restoration of the true gospel. I can picture things better now. I feel like I can identify more with the emotions of the early members of the church as they struggled and believed and were given great blessings. We stood in the very places where angels and the Lord visited Joseph Smith and other of the early Saints. We stood in the rooms where almost all of the revelations of the Doctrine and Covenants were revealed, and in the places where the Book of Mormon was translated. After returning from our trip I started studying the revelations in the Doctrine and Covenants again, and I they are so much more meaningful to me now that I can picture the places and the context in which they were given. We have always wanted to take this trip, and it was well worth it!

Now, back to the trip . . . the next stop of the Porter Fun Bus was Palmyra, NY. On our way there from Canada we stopped in Rochester for a special meal at Olive Garden - Bailey and Aubrey's favorite restaurant. This was our traditional "back to school" dinner. We decided to enjoy this annual tradition on our trip, as school would start just a few days after we returned. 
Next we drove to Palmyra and checked into our hotel, which was located right next to the church historical sites we wanted to see - the Palmyra Temple, the Smith family farm,the Sacred Grove, and the Hill Cumorah. 

After a bit we drove over to the welcome center at the Smith Farm. I think we made the day of the sister missionaries there who were anxious to talk to someone, anyone. We had purposely missed the busy season in Palmyra (summer, especially July). Most of the country was back in school by the time we visited, so we had all the sites pretty much to ourselves.

The tour starts in the accurately reconstructed Smith Log House. Lucy and Joseph Smith Sr. and their eight children all lived in this tiny house. By all accounts, the Smith family were very close and loving. They studied the Bible and had family prayer daily. This is where young Joseph learned that he could talk to God, and God would answer his prayers. I marvel frequently that a 14 year old boy had the introspection and presence of mind to question which religion he should join, and then to take his question to God in a grove of trees, expecting an answer.

Below, the main room in the small cabin.




The upstairs room where Joseph and five of his brothers would have been sleeping on the night when the Angel Moroni visited him, three years after Joseph's vision in the grove behind his house.  It is remarkable how small and humble the room is, and that Moroni shared his messages three times during the night, concluding as the sun was rising, and none of Joseph's brothers awakened.

Pic of our family in front of the log house.

Walking through the farm toward the Smith family frame home and farm buildings.  Everyone was looking off to the side, where there is an awesome view of the nearby Palmyra Temple.  It looks like it is floating in the trees!
The Smith Frame House, which was a vast improvement over the small log home. Alvin Smith worked hard on this home until he died, and then the other older boys finished it. Because of dishonesty by some of their neighbors, the Smiths were only able to live here for four years. They were forced to move back to the log home for a short time and then had to leave Palmyra forever due to persecution.

The inside of the frame house. Below, the hearth where Joseph hid the plates from the mobs. He removed the stones and fit the plates down in hole, then replaced the stones.
In the frame house Lucy Mack Smith finally had a sink in the house (but no running water).  Imagine the luxury!

This tree in front of the frame house was planted by the Smiths when Alvin died.
Right behind the houses is the grove of trees now known as the Sacred Grove. It is a hallowed spot. Most of the larger trees were there when God and Jesus Christ appeared to Joseph Smith. We loved our time in the Sacred Grove. And the mosquitoes loved sucking our blood in the grove. In fact, we all sported many bright red bites for the rest of the trip!



This is the spot in the Smith's apple orchard where 17-year-old Joseph Smith collapsed after being visited by Moroni three times during the night. After he collapsed, he was visited one more time by the angel, and was told to share the information with his father, which he did.

One day when we were driving near Fayette, New York, we saw this sign.
And right after that we shared the road with this vehicle (there are many Amish and Mennonite families living around New York, Ohio, and Pennsylvania.)
 These pictures are from our visit to the Hill Cumorah Visitors Center.
The kids checked out the Ukrainian and Russian Books of Mormon, both which Brandon is using to teach the gospel on his mission in Ukraine.

The immense statue of the Angel Moroni on the Hill Cumorah.
 
 The view from the top of the hill.
When we walked down the hill through the wooded path, I could just imagine Joseph Smith returning to the hill every year, wondering if he had been righteous enough to be entrusted with the sacred plates.  Four years he waited. It's an interesting lesson for me, that sometimes the self-reflection that comes from waiting for things is what refines us and prepares us for better things.

Below, we visited Martin Harris' farm, which was mortgaged (and part of it eventually sold) to fund the initial printing of the Book of Mormon.
  
Next we drove through historic downtown Palmyra (with the famous intersection of Church and Main Streets with a different church denomination on each of the four corners). We visited the E.B. Grandin Printing Press Building, where the Book of Mormon was printed. It was a great tour, and we learned a lot about the many tender mercies and miracles which made the printing of the Book of Mormon at that time and in that place possible. It was also interesting to learn how books were printed and bound in the 1800s. What a laborious process!
 E.B. Grandin also printed a small local newspaper, and below is the ad he put in the paper to advertise the Book of Mormon, for sale at his bookstore.  Grandin was not a member of the church, but he was a great friend to the early Saints.
Joseph tried his best to be patient with our intensive tour of everything around Palmyra, but it was hard for him at times. He said, "why do we have to learn about Joseph Smith?  We already learned about him a thousands and millions of times."

The typesetters had such a boring and arduous task - setting each tiny letter backwards and upside down, so that it could be read after the type was inked and printed.
 The splattered wall here in the printing press shows what a mess the ink made.
After the sheets were printed, it was time for another painstaking task - binding the book and putting a sheepskin cover on it.
 Bailey checks out one of the tools used to "brand" the spine of the book to add a decorative touch.
 E.B. Grandin's bookstore, on the lower level below the printing press.

On to the Whitmer Farm. Wow - this was a great stop. We learned some fascinating stories about the miracles which happened which allowed Joseph, Emma, and Oliver Cowdery to move into the tiny house and complete the translation of the Book of Mormon. This is the room where the translation took place.
While in Fayette at the Whitmer home, the church was officially organized, the plates were shown to the three witnesses, and 20 revelations were received, which are now part of the D&C.  It is particularly remarkable to contrast the significant of these events with the "humbleness" of the tiny Whitmer home.
 
Finally, on Sunday morning we attended church at the Palmyra Ward and then took some pictures across the street at the Palmyra Temple. Hurricane Irene was moving steadily up the coast, and the wide swath of storminess was even affecting us in the western part of New York. The storm started early Sunday and got steadily worse, creating historic flooding in eastern upstate New York and Vermont. Lucky for us, we were done touring New York sites, so we hopped in our car and drove to Ohio, where the skies were clear and blue.

From Bailey's records, here are some of the funny moments from these days:
Joseph: "mmmm.... I love the smell of New York cars!"
Mom: "today is Friday! Nobody sing the song."
Joseph: you guys all have iPod touches, and all I have is 3 mosquito bites!

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Porter Summer Tour - Niagara Falls

Recently we were lucky to spend 10 wonderful days in New York and Ohio. This blog post is all about the first stop on our trip, Niagara Falls.  The lesson we learned during this portion of the trip was this: on vacations sometimes things don't go exactly as planned, and yet they turn out just right.

On Thursday, August 25th we left home for the airport at 5 a.m. and boarded a flight to Buffalo, NY, with a layover in Chicago. In the rush of packing I forgot to check into our flights on Southwest until the evening before we left, so we were one of the last groups to board and would certainly all have to sit apart (including Joseph). In desperation, Joseph and I slipped into the pre-board area so we could get on earlier with the "families with young children".  Technically, I think Joseph was supposed to be 4 or younger to qualify for this privilege, but desperate times call for desperate measures.  I just stood kind of close to a Dad and his two young kids who were traveling alone together and preboarding. When this Dad laughed and talked to his kids I smiled and tried to look related to them. Thanks to my incredible acting skills, Joseph and I were able to board early, snag a row near the back, and save one seat for Aubrey to sit next to us. Poor Dan and Bailey each sat in the middle seat next to strangers.

Below, eating really good Chicago pizza during our layover in the airport.

We arrived in Buffalo, solved a minor snafu with the rental car (the "SUV" we rented had a trunk the size of a miniature Barbie house), and then I pulled out my meticulously organized folder with all of our itinerary and vacation plans. Let's see - Comfort Suites in Niagara Falls, ONTARIO???? As in Canada? Oh no.  NO, NO, NO.  I had made a big error. Luckily for us, it was a fortuitous error . . .

While planning our trip to Niagara Falls, we learned that it's ideal to cross over into Canada to see the more spectacular view there.  But, we didn't get the kid's passports done in time so, we weren't going to be able to cross the border.  Instead I made plans for us to view the falls the best we could from the New York side.  I had researched the hotels in the area extensively online, looking for suites big enough to accommodate our family which also received high ratings. Somehow in the midst of all this research and booking the hotel I failed to notice that the #1 rated family hotel in Niagara Falls is in Canada, not in the U.S.!  As we stood in the parking garage of the airport I called the number for the hotel and they told me that the $185 charge for the room was non-refundable. So, we had no hotel booked in our own country and were stuck paying for a hotel in a country we couldn't visit.

Or, could we?  At the very last minute I had shoved our passports (mine and Dan's) and the kid's birth certificates into an envelope and put them into one of suitcases. I had read online that kids under the age of 18 might be able to cross the border with just a birth certificate.  I brought them just in case we decided to try to cross at some point, but never dreamed that doing so would be necessary! We decided to live dangerously and try to cross over (of course -  we knew it wasn't going to be too hard to get into Canada, but getting back into the U.S. might be trickier.)

We told all the kids to look happy and non-terrorist-like as we stopped our car and talked to the border agent with a really cool Canadian accent. He asked us a few questions about our car (the rental car was registered in Canada, with a Quebec license plate, which I guess is a little strange for supposed American citizens visiting Canada), and then ushered us across the border.  Wahoo! We did it!

These are some things we now know about Niagara Falls:

1.  The Canada side is WAY more impressive than the U.S. side. The water flows from the U.S. side and then crashes down almost 200 feet into Canada. So, the view of most of the falls is only possible in Canada. (If you look at the picture on the top, the American side is on the far left, with a sorta-view of American Falls, but no view at all of the much cooler Horseshoe Falls).

2.  Also, there is no other way to say this . . . the American side is just plain dumpy. It was embarrassing, actually. Good thing our car had a Canadian license plate, because this wasn't a time that we were proud to be associated with the American side of a famous landmark!  The Canadian side was really beautiful and amazing. There were some areas set back from the falls in Canada which were Las Vegas tacky (we're not sure why there were so many "Ripley's Believe It Or Not", Haunted Houses, and arcades so close to one of the great wonders of the world.) We just ignored that touristy element and enjoyed the spectacular view of the waterfalls.  For example,what exactly does this wacky looking building/museum have to do with the beautiful falls?  Can you say tourist trap?

3.  Niagara Falls is crazy expensive. The most expensive meal we ate the entire trip was eaten that first night. By the time we got checked into our hotel and drove by the unbelievable nighttime light show at the falls
it was almost 9 p.m. Eastern time (6 p.m. Washington time.) We weren't starving yet, but we realized our options were closing for food. So, we looked for a fast food place and couldn't find one. Finally, we ran into a Perkins restaurant just before closing. We ordered the most expensive pancakes in the history of the world.  Try $70 for our family, with a really annoyed waitress who just wanted to go home.

Below, this was the cookie they gave us at Perkins - half chocolate chip and half sugar cookie.  We decided it was a representation of Niagara Falls -  half Canadian/half U.S.  But maybe it's just how they make cookies at Perkins!

We thought it was super cool that everything in Canada, including the jam and hot chocolate packets, was written in both English and French!


4.  We knew this already, but we were reminded that adults can happily spend a lot more time than kids looking at spectacular natural beauty. The next morning we got up and walked to the Falls from our hotel. It was an awesome sight, and we all loved our trip on the Maid of the Mist, a boat which takes you right to the base of the falls (more on this below). We took lots of pictures from the vantage points overlooking the falls. After the boat ride Dan and I wanted to continue walking down the sidewalk to "Table Rock", where you can stand next to the thundering water rushing over the brink of Horseshoe Falls. Once in a lifetime experience, right?  Well, we gave up about halfway there. Too much whining. So, we turned around and headed back to the hotel, swam for a bit, and then checked out and headed to Palmyra.


It was raining a bit, but that's not why I looked like a drowned rat below. Actually, we were in such a hurry to get down to see the falls in the morning that I left the hotel with completely wet hair.  It was easier that way - when it rained and then when I got drenched on Maid of the Mist it was no biggie.

 The mist coming off the bottom of the falls is so thick that it looks like a big plume of smoke.

Below, our pictures from the Maid of the Mist boat tour, which was an awesome adventure. We all donned blue raincoat thingys and rode an open air boat around and very near both American and Horseshoe Falls. It's hard to even describe the power and force of the wind-driven mist close to the waterfalls.

 
  
 
Below, this is a close up of American and Bridal Veil Falls, showing the wooden walkways for the "Cave of the Winds" tour.  This tour allows you to walk very, very close to the waterfalls and feel the tropical-storm-like conditions right under Bridal Veil Falls, getting drenched in the process.

And here we are, very wet after the boat trip.

 Walking along the water to see the falls up close.
 
 Aubrey standing in front of one of the beautifully landscaped areas near the falls. Like I said, the Canadian side is very well maintained. Not quite so impressive across the border!
  Posing with a Canadian mountie on the walk back to the hotel.
 Look what we found near the hotel - a chocolate bar just the right size for me.

Oh, and by the way, we did make it back across the border into the U.S. just fine. In case you are wondering, birth certificates are a perfectly okay way for kids to cross the border, as long as they are accompanied by parents with passports. Whew!

Bailey kept track of some of the funny moments on our trip. Here a few from our day at Niagara:
*  Bailey: there's bird poop on the window!                                                                                          
   Dad: Cool! Canadian bird poop! 
   Bailey: Uh, I'm pretty sure it's New York bird poop...                                                                       
   Dad: Ew! Gross! 

*  Joseph: I don't want to go to Canada! We don't speak Canadian! Take me back to Buffalo! 

*  Joseph: Canada's a BUILDING! Take me back! (After we crossed the border we saw a building that said "Canada."  He thought that was all there was to see.) 

*  Joseph: (who was less than impressed by our plans to visit a waterfall for an entire day) Can't we just DRIVE past the Falls?  

*  Joseph: this is NOT my idea of fun.  My idea of fun is swimming! (After enjoying a really cool Maid of the Mist tour and looking at one of the most impressive waterfalls in the world.)
            That's it for the Niagara Falls portion of our summer tour. Next stop, Palmyra, New York!

            Tuesday, September 13, 2011

            Remembering

            It was sobering to pause on 9/11/11 to think back to the horrific events of a decade ago and the ways our lives have changed as a result.  This is the page in my scrapbook with our memories of the day.  The font is pretty small, so I'm going to retype it at the end of the post.


            Remembering September 11th, 2001

            On Sept. 11 '02, 3,003 flags were displayed n er the City Hall in Sandy. One flag was flown for each person killed in the terrorist attacks which occurred one year before. It was a very moving sight. Bailey and Aubrey posed for a picture among the flags. Here are our memories about the day of the infamous terrorist attacks . .

            Dan - I was in California for business meetings.  I woke up early and turned on the TV. I heard that a plane had hit a World Trade tower in NY, and that it was thought to be an accident. While I was watching, a live video showed the second plane hitting the other tower. I was in shock. This was obviously a terrorist attack. I was worried about getting home from CA. The airports were closed until Friday, when I flew home to Utah. It was hard to focus on work that week. We wanted to listen to the news and try to make sense of the unanswerable questions. It seemed to me this was the beginning of things to come.

            Tiffany - After driving Brandon to school, I drove to Costco with Bailey, Ashlyn (who was spending the night), and Aubrey. When we walked in, everyone in the store was gathered around the TV displays, watching the news. We were curious, an watched as the second plane hit the towers. I felt sick. The girls didn't understand the significance of what we were watching. I had a hard time finishing our shopping, and spent most of the day sneaking peeks at the news, without letting the kids see disturbing images.

            Brandon - I had no idea what had happened until I got to school and heard kids joking bout how planes crashed. I thought they were joking. When I walked in, my teacher had the TV news on, showing what happened. I had mixed feelings. I was confused and wondered if they just made it up. I was sad to know that probably it did happen. I was angry because kids were joking about it. I was wondering if they would do it again - the next day, next year, or maybe attack my school. Also, I thought about how this was something really big that would be in the history books, and I was 9 years old and would remember that I lived through it.

            Bailey (age 4) - I remember one day I was taking up piles of clothes for Mom and they were talking about the towers. It made me feel bad because some people even got dead. When I went to bed that night I dreamed that I was in the buildings and died.

            The List

            I love to travel. There is so much I love about traveling, and there are so many places I want to see and experience. We have been lucky to visit some favorite vacation spots a number of times - the beautiful Oregon Coast and Disneyland in CA.

            At least 15 years ago Dan and I had a conversation about "other trips we want to take with the kids before they leave home."  Here is the list we made, showing the progress we have made so far.

            Trips to Take as a Family

            1.  Washington D.C./Williamsburg, VA - U.S. History sites (March 2009)
            2.  Hawaii (November 2009)
            3.  Nauvoo/Missouri/Wyoming church history sites (July 2000)
            4.  Disneyworld  (December 2007)
            5.  Boston, Philadelphia, etc.
            6.  NYC, New York - while there see some Broadway shows
            7.  Palmyra, NY/Kirtland OH church sites and Niagara Falls (August 2011)

            That was the original list, but we add other ideas all the time.  Glacier National Park, The Redwoods in CA, Vancouver, Canada; Chicago, a trip to Texas to see the sites and relatives, another trip to San Diego.  And, my favorite addition to the list:  A Disney cruise.  Oh yeah, I'm dreaming big time about this one. Dan isn't convinced yet, but he will be.

            There is another list I have in my head.  It looks something like this:

            Places I want to go without young children:

            1.  Europe - anywhere on the continent
            2. Anywhere else in the U.S. or abroad  (I might exclude a few third world countries, but I'm open to most places)

            It's fun to dream.